Say: It was *me* with the 24 hours rule.... I'm really forcing myself to sleep on it.

bklyn- I'm not he's thought that far in advance, which will work to my advantage smile
When they were leaving, S6 was complaining that he didn't want to go to the gym... so it wouldn't be unusual for to ask: "So, did you have fun at the gym even though you didn't want to go?" I'm not sure if I can coordinate this while H is in the house, but I'm gonna try smile

***Does anyone have any ideas on how to handle OW (I made a long post about her earlier today, but it got overlooked by 'his lie' post.) I want to know how I can aim his eyes back at me, even with all the flattery he gets from her- and obviously feels the need to lie about being around her for some reason (guilt? shame? avoid conflict?)

Tonight:
I went to a great church with a new 'friend' (she's a mom that I've talked to every morning at the bus stop and we've gotten closer.) It was uplifting! Guess what the sermon was on: identity and responsibility crisis in Marriage!! Can we say that I *meant* to go tonight?! I saw a lot of the wrongs I did in the sermon, and I saw the wrongs he's doing now. It was a good lesson that I needed to hear..... Now what to do with it? Not sure. I got put on a list for a woman's group- something I NEVER would have done before. But, I need to get some new faces in my life and this seemed like a good place to start.


M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12