Rick, if you click on the posters name (in red) you will see view posts in the drop down. Click on that and you can find the threads posted to.

I find that very helpful.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss