Confused and alone

[BklynMom]

I totally understand how ashamed you feel. I felt/feel the same way. H and I share so many mutual friends through work and life. I can convince myself that they all must believe I am a monster cause my H "is such a good guy'.

So many people know about his thing with OW and know what good friends they are. I too had a feeling early on about OW. I went to visit my H at work one day with our girls and H reintroduced us, she said Hi but wont look me in the eye then she ran off quickly to do something. Something registered that day.

But my point is even though it stinks, acting like a Real Housewife of NH is not gonna make you more attractive to your H or your friends. Your friends will rally behind you the more dignified you can be.

Look at Maria Shriver. She is laying low and composing herself. When she does give an interview (probably with Oprah) it will be graceful and not angry. Her grace and dignity with make the Govonator look like even more of a ______ (fill in the blank)

PS I think barely cheating means he kissed her, which is kind of barely cheating, no?