So sorry you are here Molly but oh yes...there is probably someone else.
STOP having sex with him. He wants a divorce remember? Where is your dignity?
I have been where you are. You'll look back and regret it if you don't do what's good for YOU first.
Step back...let him go and work on yourself. IF he wants your marriage he will have to work for it. In the meantime you are working on you. With or without him.
Luv
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10