Glad to hear that you're doing okay, MTS. Sometimes, the best thing you can do in the face of such a life event is what you're doing -- just roll with the flow of things and take everything one day at a time. Your life will come together as it is meant to.

Us: mid-20s
T: 5.5 yrs
M: 2 yrs
S + OM: 6/21/11
Legally S'd: 9/9/11

In this life, you have a limited amount of mental currency. You get what you pay for, so spend it wisely.

So it goes. --Kurt Vonnegut