Wasn't it you Purg w/ the 24 hour rule? Or perhaps it was Perseverance?? Anyhow, no matter what you do, sit on it for at least a day so you have a clearer head in how you want to handle things.

I am in the camp of not saying anything. But, what about if you are hanging out w/ the kids or having dinner all together and ask the kids how the gym was in front of him? "uh what gym mom?" I know this is being slightly manipulative but it should get the cat out of the bag if that is something you truly feel you need.


Me- 34 W-33
S15 S10 S6
Married- 11 Together- 18
Bomb- 6-2011
WAW moves out- 8-2011

"Nothing in the Universe can stop you from letting go and starting over at anytime"- Guy Finley