Just had a lightbulb moment! H is probably choosing to lie to avoid a blow up, since that's how I usually would react... and since he made the comment 2 days ago: "are we going to talk about this every time Im around?"....

I think that by not saying anything- might give him the impression that I *won't* over react anymore....although, he probably thinks he's smart enough to hide it and that I would never find out.

But how can I *prove* this to him if he never presents me with the opportunity to do so- ad chooses to just keep lying to avoid confrontation??


M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12