You know what not to do. How about this scenario-you call and b!tch him out and in his mind he's thinking "I knew she wouldn't change. We're separated and she's still trying to control me! I'm better off without that drama"
Be the new, calm and in control Purg-you can do this. And you really don't know where he was. Yes, maybe he lied but remember your last conversation with him about dip-op?
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he knows he has limited time with her before he deploys and he MAY want to know her better before he ditches the mother of his kids--who CANNOT rant at him now...
But you can say, "hey I drove by her house and saw the car. You don't have to lie to me h, that just adds insult to injury. You're better than this," and leave it at that.
Anything else that comes up--IF he asks for an answer you say you need to reflect and process before answering
These are two huge 180s....and THIS is when it matters!
Stay strong!
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016