How about this scenario-you call and b!tch him out and in his mind he's thinking "I knew she wouldn't change. We're separated and she's still trying to control me! I'm better off without that drama"
Be the new, calm and in control Purg-you can do this. And you really don't know where he was. Yes, maybe he lied but remember your last conversation with him about dip-op?
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Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss