Welcome to the best place that nobody wishes they had to find, but are glad they did. These forums have been a lifesaver for many of us.
What changes have you made to address the things you realize you were doing wrong in the relationship? What about changes to any of your H's complaints that he may have had(the valid ones)?
Have you been following the advice from the books?
One thing to keep in mind is that it took a long time to get to this point. It is going to plenty of time, work and patients to get it back.
As for the sex, I'd venture to say that it isn't a good idea. I'm sure others with more expertise will chime in.
Follow the 37 dos and don'ts that JS posted above to get you started.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
