In the real world no one is everything their partner wants or expects and neither are you! So only you know where the line is between legitimate expectation and fantasy relationship. My Dad said to me on my wedding day "Son, one day you're gonna roll over in bed, look at that lady beside you and say 'who is this person, she's not the woman I married" Uh, thanks Dad! So, what is compromise and what is settling? Only you can know that for yourself.
