we have had a multitude of problems. I have promised to make changes before, and did for awhile, then reverted back.
What were those problems? What are his complaints against you? Which ones do you feel are justified? Which ones sting?
Originally Posted By: Molly
I have made many mistakes over being insecure and jealous. I have accussed him of things and behaved badly based solely on what was in my head.
Why did you think/behave this way? What made you insecure?
Originally Posted By: Molly
Should I try and talk to her or do anything to address this matter?
I wouldn't.
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He is constantly on his cell, texting, emailing and talking to "someone???"
I am not a proponent for snooping even though I did it but I will say you may want to prepare yourself that there may be somebody else.
The best advice I have is what has been said to you and if you read DB and DR then you know not to do all the needy things a left behind spouse (LBS) does.
Best to get busy and look in the mirror for your answers. Identify things you want to change in yourself and I have asked you someone questions to set you on your way. The changes we call 180s doing things opposite of what you have done because that didn't work. Right?
Also GAL (Get a Life)What have you always wanted to do that you have never done?
Example: I learned to ride a horse. Languages? Cooking?
What is there for you?
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
