Good job on getting out of the house and getting the fish oil. Gold star!
Go ahead and rent the truck and move your stuff. Remember that this doesn't necessarily mean you won't be back together IF THIS IS THE RIGHT RELATIONSHIP (but DO listen to your friends and family if they think it's not! They're often more objective and can see what you can't).
But either way, she DOES have a lot of work to do on her parenting skills before this would ever work between you, so let go of it for now and focus on yourself.
