you will drive your self crazy with the what ifs... dont do it! alot of things "may" happen, but you cant predict them... you need to let it go for now, focus on the things you have control over, the things YOU need.. if taking a snow shoe walk makes you happy then go for a walk.. little things get us through each and every hour..
I have had the "what if" converations in my head, and I have learned all it does is make me even more freaked out! so i let it go, i turned the corner, and it actually feels good not to worry of the things i can not control... I focus my energies on the things I can, you know you need to move, regardless if its the end of Feb or the first of May, you know that is happening, so spend your time finding the answer to that, put your energy into the things you have to do.. leave the "what ifs" out in la la land, that is exactly where they belong.
Oh I hear you on that. And I love trying to let go of trying to control stuff we cannot. It's very freeing.
This is more, I am trying to have a 'plan' of how I *want* to react to several scenarios, just regarding the night he returns.
You think I should even not 'plan' that?
I just figured if you don't have an idea of how you will react given the WORST case scenario, if that happens, you will be completely unprepared and perhaps react/act really badly if shocked with it?
