The realization came while I was in the shower yesterday (you know, where all great thoughts seem to formulate) that I decided to accept crumbs and I can chose to keep the status quo which is comfortable in some ways and scary in others or I can completely destroy my family unit because of my sick need to be secure.
Or you can break the cycle and allow things to get better.
And why is your desire to be secure sick? Because there are so many things outside your control? That doesn't make your desire sick, we all have that desire. Why are you beating up on yourself about it? Frist, there are different types of security. You seem to be focused on partner security. Just because you don't feel secure in your relationship with Gabe doesn't mean you couldn't ever. Or that you shouldn't expect to.
Why put it on him to walk away? Why settle for the status quo?
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
