the cold hard truth is, that I was given a gift of a $5000 retainer and that is NOT enough for a full out custody battle.
Okay, it is my time to not fight fair for a second.....
Do you want to be the one to tell them that one day ????
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I have no grounds
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W is using them to hurt me in every direction. She's feeding them lies and every time I drop them off, she gives them the interrogation act. When I did talk to W and ask her to stop all this or I was going to tell my lawyer, she went to the kids and told them that I was trying to take them away from her and that they were never going to see her again.
Are you comfortable sitting by and watching that ?
What are you willing to give up to change that ?
Sammy, I can support your choices , IF I could see that you are letting her go the right way.
But I'm not gonna sit and watch you do this the wrong way, without you answering the hard questions.....
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I was not a perfect man in my R with W
That is the part you are glossing over. Taking responsibility for your part in that.
Until you own those things, you are going to remain stuck in that victim role.
Until you own those things, you will never find the source of that anger inside of you
Until you own those things, your anger will rule every relationship you are in. Spouse, children, dog groomer, mailman....
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But I loved her with everything I had. I gave her everything I had. And there was nothing on this Earth that I would have NOT done for her.
Maybe all she ever wanted was you ? Did you ever give her that ?
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And this might sound negative, but no matter how many changes I make, I wont mean a rats butt to her.
Can I get lottery numbers from you for the Megamillions ????
You don't know that, she doesn't even know that. How do you know what she is or isn't capable of ???
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This is why she decided to throw me out and bring OM in and hurt me?
Thats the dig.....you think she did all of this , just to hurt you.....
