Today has been a good day! I was able to talk to W over the phone,(she called, regarding D's 18 month checkup appointment) and I had no expectation and there was no fighting.
I just shut up and listened and I answered when asked a question. Now the trick will be to be able to do that when she is spewing.
Oh well, baby steps.
M:35 W:33 M: 5 yrs. Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10 D Final: 8/7/12