So the judge decides not to show up today. Lovely. Thank you, wheels of justice for your efficient and effective grinding. I sat in my Ls office while he was on tbe phone with Ws L and court clerk arranging dates. Also drafted a $ proposal for spousal maint. and child support. If this goes through to the end, I am going to end up paying a lot of money for a long time for a D I would saw my foot off to avoid. If we have a hearing, the whole banana could be done around May. If there is no hearing, maybe sooner. frown

Thanks GM, my W is a good person. She is a good person and a beautiful soul - I have never contradicted that in this process regardless of how angry I've gotten. Never meant to hurt her, never meant to let her down, never meant to break her heart. Hell, I didn't even know I was doing it.

I still pray that there is hope for me, my W, my S and my M. Thank you all for your thoughts, prayers, advice and guidance.

Crimson