So we have been doing the sleeping arrangements with her in our bedroom and me on the couch. Not exclusively, there has been a week with it opposite, but mostly me on the couch. For the most part I really don't mind, but i'm curious what other's think about this. Sometimes I wonder if I shouldn't be more like, "the heck with her, she wants this, she can have the couch", but I don't know how well that would help DB'ing efforts.