First of all for today be the man with courage and integrity that you weren't before.
We have a little saying around here:
You can't talk your way out of something you acted your way into.
The letter and her response is positive. I'm with 25 on that. But you should have no expectations.
And this is over when YOU say it is.
Not because of some judge or a piece of paper.
Originally Posted By: Crimson
The only reason I think that now is that I have spent a lot of time digging into myself and my contributions to our meltdown and trying to rectify things.
There is a time to look at these things and you have done so.
Now.
Forgive yourself. Your remorse serves you best in your own contrition and healing.
When you keep apologizing it is pursuing, needy, and reminding her of how long she suffered your behavior.
Act your changes. Live your changes. Whether she is looking or not.
Whether you think she is watching or not. She is.
Be strong today.
Best.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
