When my ex forced me to move out and I kept telling myself that this can’t and couldn’t happen to my family. I moved into my cousins basement. I still made the house payment paid the utilities and got to see my kids every other weekend. I let my ex take control of me at first and It took me a while to figure out what I wanted in life. You know what it took for me to wake up? It wasn’t what my ex was doing, It wasn’t the OM, it wasn’t my kids, it was me hitting rock bottom. I got stupid and led myself down the dark oh pitiful me road.
Really look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself who in their right mind wants to be with the person looking back at you in the mirror? When I really looked deep and hard at myself I said F!@k this I am a better man than who I see in the mirror.
I beg, borrowed and sold everything I could to get my life back on track. I got my own place, my D18 moved in with me because I forced myself to get my life back on track. I fought for 50/50 custody of D12. My kids didn’t like who my ex turned into and it was my job to protect them. You are the only one that can figure out what’s important and you are the only one that can make it happen.
You can do this!
Answer Mach’s questions honestly and face those fears.
I might not walk in your shoes but I had a similar pair!
Me 44 W 38 M 18 D 18 D 13 Bomb 10/21/2010 Divorced 7/19/2011 Just getting to the 7th inning!
