What Do I Do? Help!

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Journaling ...well today started out great(sarcasm). W said again to me that the only reason she has stayed with me is because of her father,it'd always been my way or the highway, I never considered her feelings, its always what I want and I hear what I want to hear. Well I was able to do a 180 on all this as I just agreed with her and that took the wind out of her sails. I know it is said to not believe most of what our S says and I really think she is looking for that final explosion from to validate her leaving me and our boys. She has said that her leaving is not set in stone but she does talk about how to handle the finances.

My biggest concern is how my S14 is going to handle this if and or when she leaves. He has a 19 day trip to Europe coming up in late July early August and my feeling is is that he may not want to go after this goes down.