"I'll never understand why me leaving was the only thing that worked."
Hummmm......so hard to know what tone she was using when she sent this, but based on the other statements, I tend to think she said it with sorrow and frustration. At the same time, it seems she sees that it "worked". That's better than her seeing that you'll never change....even if she leaves. So, perhaps the letter, plus timing, plus your hard work has planted a seed. I believe timing is everything.
Emotions and doubt will be tugging very hard on her heart as the time approaches for court. Don't shut her out. Stay open. Look at her. If she's looks your way....don't turn away. Look into her eyes as if you are looking into her soul. Let your eyes do the talking.
Her lawyer may try to keep her separated from you when arriving to the courthouse. But if the two of you should meetin the hall or at the doors.....just wait and give her time, in case she says somethin. IOW, don't turn away. I'm not saying you are to start crying or begging or anything like that. I'm just saying to be open to her in case her eyes are searching yours, and let your face tell her what she wants to know.
Just remember, there is nothing that can happen this day that you and God can't handle
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
