I am so darn bad with words. I wasn't thinking her H caused the heart condition. I was thinking maybe her H is so scared, in addition to having a MLC, that he just can't deal with the seriousness of something like that. It is more like half a thought. My half a thought is caused by how my H is so dismissive of my problem. And by how darn surreal it was when my doctor told me I had "minor heart failure". He looked so stricken.
As to how to deal with the emotional blow of the BFF becoming the OW I am still working on that. I hate it because I still worry about her. We were only friends about 6 months before the 'body snatch'.
And she told me the first time we went to lunch I was going to be sorry I became her friend. I though it was just her strange sense of humor. Not her psychopath side.
But I felt sorry for her, because of how lonely she was, how she claimed all the other wives hated her because of the age difference between her and her husband. She also lied to me about her age. I thought she looked old for the age she claimed, but figured maybe she had just sun-worshipped too much.
Anyway, I try to just remember I have true friends, who support me now. I know that what comes around goes around.
