Please take it easy. You know you have a tendency to go over the top - even if the cap was a joke.
Seriously - I would NEVER have let a guy I had not even met yet pick me up. Right there - is a huge safety concern. Meet in a public place. I made sure the guys did not know my real phone number so they did not know where I lived. I don't want anyone who could be a "stalker" to know - that's for sure. I also had children to protect. Call me overly safe - but can you be too safe?
Also - you say you let her pick the place yet you are all over her with suggestions. Let her do it. Let her be comfortable in meeting her.
If you scare her off now - you won't meet.
I'm glad you enjoy her emails and she enjoys yours but remember - you have felt this way with other women too.
