So we met with the counselor tonight. Session went well, or so I thought. We agreed to some ground rules, which H has already broken. Should I be surprised?!
We agreed that we would not discuss our issues outside of counseling, so that we felt safe to express ourselves.
No sooner did we get home, but he is outside on the phone with his female "friend" from work. He admitted to sharing the details of our session with her, but I am supposed to be ok with it because she is in her 60s and she is pro-marriage. Big deal! She is also the woman who calls my husband at all hours of the day/night to discuss her personal problems with him. He has not come to family things because he is out late at "work dinners" with her. And I'm supposed to be ok with him sharing our personal business with her?!
Ok, rant over. I emailed the counselor and told her that due to this incident, I don't feel comfortable sharing anything else with him knowing it was going to be relayed to her.
I went out for a run, and when I came back, he was on the phone again. I can hear bits and pieces as his room is right over mine. He had a very angry tone to his voice like this is my fault. Oh yeah, I forgot- everything is my fault!
Not sure how to proceed...
Me:37 H:44 M:13 T:17 S:8 D:9 H living in spare bedroom since 9/5/11
