Originally Posted By: BklynMom
He was totally trying to bait you to flip out. BUT YOU DIDNT. That is so awesome.

I dont think they even know they are trying to bait us, but I think they just want to reinforce to themselves why it cant work out so they try to get us angry. Even though in this sitch our angry response is rationale they associate our over the top reactions with instances that are irrationale. Does that make sense??



Great job nhmom!!! Totally makes sense BK. Great goal to get through the next 2 days until your sister is here and you can get a few more days to sort your thoughts. This seems like a big 180 for you. Right it down in your solutoin book and keep track.

Best!!


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