I'm sorry that things are a little "confusing". This process as we all know isn't linear, so right now it's one of "down" periods. But similar to the ebbs you've experienced during your journey, this phase will pass and you'll come out okay.
You're in a new phase of the journey it seems...how the new you moves forward. I'm slightly behind you, so as I've echoed so often, thanks for helping & guiding me through the process.
Stay the course my friend...you are doing terrific.
_______________________ M: 47; W: 39 M: 4.5 yrs; T: 18 years No children Separated: 01/19/11 Wife Served Papers: 02/1/11 Wife moved: 03/05/11 Responded: 04/14/11