Indecision and the affair continues (Part 2)

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NBLOST,
I have read your story. You are an amazing women. Now for the reality:
Tell him to get the fvck out! Not in a week, not in a day but the very next time you see him face to face.

I have been where you are. One Wednesday evening last March I had, had ENOUGH. My "had enough" went on for 3 months, then I spit the words out: GET OUT! He did.

It took about 20 minutes for the text to start rolling in, then the calls. Within 24 hours he was at my house inviting me to breakfast, dinner ect...

We are "together" again, but still not in the same house. He spends all weekends here and maybe a night or two a week. I kinda like the situation.

YOU and only YOU can break the cycle. He is either in or he is out. It seems that the decision is up to YOU!!!!

Now, I would probably send the OW a message, that is just me. It would go like this: I have decided that you can have him.
While we are still sexually active, he is no longer a trust worthy man. I will let all the chips land where they may. He has expressed in marriage C, a desire not to divorce, however the option is now closed.

End it there....