As a marriage counselor, I would be asking you why you thought my opinion was so important.

Only you too hold the answer to that.

I agree that doing that is an ambush. You would only be giving her more of a reason to bolt.

Be careful, because it probably would be turned back on you.

PS. They do teach us how to handle those situations in Grad. school.


Good Luck!

M:35
W:33
M: 5 yrs.
Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10
D Final: 8/7/12