I want to know in your professional opinion if we continue to get individual counseling and couples counseling do we have a chance? Can we work this out?
I think that would be a lot of pressure on her.
If he responds yes, then all the pressure would be put on her to find away to do that. It would put a lot of guilt on her for doing what she felt she had to do.
I think she would feel as ambushed as Custer did in the Black Hills....
You have a great opportunity in front of you to learn what is going through her mind.
Put on your blue leisure suit, splash on some Brut 33 , sit and really listen to her dude....
Count to 10 ( ah crap, your from PA....count to three, three times-close enough- ) before you respond : ), and really think before you speak.
You appear to be putting way too much power on this one session.
You should worry about planting a seed before you harvest the crop.....
