Confused and alone

[BklynMom]

You did amazing!!! yippee!! I am so happy you didnt lose it.

The end of the conversation:
""H again said that we don't know each other anymore, etc. Before he left, H said "You think you have nobody, but I am the one who has nobody to talk to". I said he did, he has family and friends, but he said that he can't talk to them. I did my best to bite my tongue and mention the OW. I didn't say a word. H said that if we do go our separate ways, that he hopes to do it in the most amicable way and that the least I can do is to let him see S4 (or something like that). I said "we'll see". H's guard goes up: "what do you mean?" I repeated myself in a calm voice.""

He was totally trying to bait you to flip out. BUT YOU DIDNT. That is so awesome.

I dont think they even know they are trying to bait us, but I think they just want to reinforce to themselves why it cant work out so they try to get us angry. Even though in this sitch our angry response is rationale they associate our over the top reactions with instances that are irrationale. Does that make sense??

He doesnt even know he is doing it. Now he can play his double header and he cant bash you to his soccer buddies!

Can you do anything super nice in the morning, like make pancakes or something?? Just continue to show how chill you are and the new you?
I am so happy:)