The thing that keeps eating at me is how the LBS seems to be the one who has to "eat it" and not say or do anything... It makes for A LOT of internal frustrations. As hard as it was to keep you mouth shut- something in your head kept telling you that it was the best way to handle the sitch. You would normally want to confront, yell and accuse H... and all that would do is remind him of why he left (cause who would want to come back to a bitter, b!tchy W?) That's the only thing that gets me through those moments: proving to him that I'm not the same person by action completely OPPOSITE of what he expects. (it's really fun to watch his face get confused)
I've been there a lot lately, dealing with my new OW issues. I've been getting great advice on anger release and acting "as if" from 25 on my thread- check it out, there's a lot of things that would apply to you (Too much for me to try and repost here)
Primal screams into a pillow (when everyone is out of the house) has seemed to help me- I even do it in my car if the house is full (my neighbors are starting to wonder, lol!)
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12
