Thanks guys. Yes, he has, as I once told him, made his own bed; now he can lay in it. I'm quite sure he is in a financial bind, or at least tight, and I'm equally sure his new wifey is pushing his buttons about it. None of which I can control, or have any interest in. Do have to wonder how he likes the wife that is good at spending money instead of the wife who managed it.
After the initial rage, I have really quite settled down and do not think the judge will give it a second thought, but worry it could cause a delay.
25 years, I'm holding you to the promise it's the last lap! My friend posted a msg. on FB that said we cannot embrace a new life experience when our hands are so full of the old. I'm ready to wash my hands of this part of life, at least as it is.