I decided against the phone call to MC, I really don't think it matters at this point, if I cancel appointment its the same as if the MC is pro marriage.
Other than sitting back and listening to what W says, when I am asked for my input I was thinking of asking MC at session:
I want to know in your professional opinion if we continue to get individual counseling and couples counseling do we have a chance? Can we work this out?
I would think if he says yes in front of W, W might actually listen to MC and put an effort in trying to make things work.
Obviously the reverse could happen if he says no, and would put the finishing nails into the coffin. Good idea or bad idea?
M 33 W 29 S 4 M 5 T 7 11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents 12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over" 1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped
