Rick- I am happy (and a little jealous) for you smile Jealous because I'm not there yet... but BEYOND HAPPY for you!!!!

Forgive for asking- but how long has it been since your 'bomb' to when you saw a little thawing in her? I've heard the rule to live by is 1 month of consistent change for every year you were together.... was this the case for you?

I'm really trying not to focus on a timeline, but it's hard to accept that this could go on for years.

Soon, you'll be one of our "wise Dbers" like 25 and bustorama smile


M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12