I need advice for dealing with a WAW

[SamuelH]

Hi again. Sorry for not updating sooner, but I haven't been checking this site since the 8th of December... (Is there a way to recieve email notification when someone posts in one of your threads? I would have posted an update after sandi2 asked for one, but I didn't know she asked because I wasn't checking the thread...)

Anywho, There has still been absolutely zero contact between my W and I. I did not send her any gifts or cards or things for Christmas nor did I receive anything from her (I wasn't really expecting anything anyways). I also have not tried contacting her parents since I last posted. Needless to say, they have not contacted me either.

I was talking to my sister-in-law on the weekend who said that she occasionally sees my W on Facebook chat (I'm still blocked from her FB) and that everytime my SIL tries to ask her what happened my W just responds along the lines of "Hi I'm fine" and then goes offline or stops responding.

I also talked to our MC's (her pastor and his wife from the Church my W used to attend) this weekend and it seems they have little to no news either. They asked my W (on Facebook chat) what she was doing. Her response was one word: "Working". They told me that they feel like they should step in at this point and are going to leave my W a message telling her she owes me an explanation at the very least for what is going on.

So I guess nothing has really changed with my sitch. I was pretty busy over the holidays which really helped to keep my mind off of things. I find that now that the holidays are over and things are quiet again I am back to missing my W. The sadness comes and goes however. Sometimes I'll feel fine and happy for a week or two and then it comes back and it's like a crushing defeat and a fear that I may never see her again.

I've also started going to the gym in the morning before work.