Dear Purgatory,

I am caught up on your thread. Wow, we have a lot in common. I am sorry you are going through all this.

I am loving all the great advise you are being given.

Your hear condition sounds scary. I have minor heart failure myself. Not related to any blockage, but from having had a heart attack at some point and not knowing about it.

I spent years telling docs the internet said it was my heart. Ha, the internet was right. I got pretty sick before they finally did the right tests. I am now on medicine, weigh less, am in better shape and doing well.

My husband acts like it is something I play up. (I do not.) I had tried to tell him how different my life is now that I have it under control. Now I know just not to talk to him because he is hearing everything thru his "ME" filter.

Do you think your heart condition has anything to do with your situation? Is your husband scared, a little? A lot?

I'm going to go back and re-read all your thread. There was a lot to absorb.

Aloha,

Wendy


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