Did you get a new job? A new place? Do you like it? Does the job pay better?
Remember how we asked you, repeatedly, not to make this about your w or OM?
You keep doing that. You pay lip service to your GAL and it centers on church which apparently vindicates you enough that you don't bravely look inward to see your role in this--
honestly I can't recall you conceding a single character flaw or trait in YOU that needs changing...that scares me.
I don't have a lot of hope that your sitch will change b/c you are mired in your victimhood....and you think this is all about being right, but it's about being happy.
Never mind your w or OM. Never mind what you say the kids say about him, b/c I bet she has a different answer....and certainly a different viewpoint.
Ever try to understand HERS? We help the person here to focus on the person here--ie you.
But you refuse to answer the real questions about what got you here,
and what you need to work on.
You still keep the focus on the latest doings of theirs-
You are furious that she now lets OM live in the MIL's house, although he's been in her life for awhile now and you did the same thing...
I fail to see the moral difference although it's true you are not legally divorced yet-
but that costs money, and only you have a free lawyer...
So now that she can't spend all your money, are you wealthy now?
Other than going to church, what are you doing about YOUR own personal work? What are your 180s?
What are your GAL that involve meeting other adults?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
