"Friend said he will try to find out what's going on, but not say he talked to me."

Talking to you isn't the best option for him. He needs to talk to your H if that is the case.

In the end it's none of his business. It's okay to be armed with the news, but it's up to you to decide on how to use it.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER