Our friend went through a divorce just about a year ago. He was the WAS. Then, when his ex-W moved on, friend realized what he had done and it opened his eyes. By then it was too late.
H was there for friend when he was going through it, called him an idiot and stuff. Now, H decided to be the idiot and will not tell friend what is going on because he knows friend would disapprove. I know everyone is different, but I do trust friend in his feelings because he went through it. Friend said he will try to find out what's going on, but not say he talked to me.