I don't think H and OW are just "friends". He's emotionally vested in her. H obviously has feeling for OW and has told our friend. Hence the reason for his "confession" a few months back where he made up a story. Friend said that H was embarrassed or guilty about telling the truth about co-worker. I also think co-worker changed her phone# because of the discrepancies I noticed.
I'm trying to find information on adultery in my state. I don't have clear proof that they have indeed done anything. I may consult with a lawyer just to get an idea of what might lie ahead of me. My friend also said that he'd testify for me if needed. Even though he was more H's friend, he has taken my side even though I told him I didn't want him to take sides. But since he's been there, done that, he knows what H is going through and friend offered his support if needed. Again, I did not ask him to.
I'm trying to be "cool". I don't know what I'm going to do or what I'm going to say to H when I see him tonight.
