NTX is right...sorry but he really is. Your h already knows the sex with you CAN be great and you need say nothing else about that.
He knows you'd like more but he loses nothing by refusing to commit as it stands and more communications from you only confirms that.
Go dark...very dark.
GAL for your self esteem and to be happy.
And Detach. Here's a post on detachment b/c I think you're having trouble knowing what it is. I know I did.
II. Detachment Detachment is critical to the process of altering and repairing a relationship. Attached, we take personally all that is said, not said, done and not done. Our ego gets wounded and we are more inclined to do those things that will undermine our very best chances of accomplishing our goals. We can not control the actions of another.
We are, however, responsible for our own actions. We are responsible for our own happiness.
If we are detached from the actions of another, we can meet anger or indifference with love. Met with love we are in a position to diffuse the situation and transform it in a way that will be in alignment with our goals.
On the flipside, detachment allows us to play it cool when we do get a positive reaction from our spouse. It is a way to break the distance/pursuer cycle.
Detachment is not withdrawal. It is not the mind saying, ‘I am not getting what I want so I must pull back.’
It is the natural acceptance that I am alone responsible for how I act. I can not control another person, but I can control how I respond to them. And I continue to be solely responsible for my happiness and will not give that power away to anyone.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
