"So, yes, this is basically like a divorce, without the paperwork"
Wrong. You aren't divorced.
Just because he's acting like an @$$ and saying that he wants a divorce, doesn't make you divorced.
If you want to start saving your M, you have to stop with the negative speak. It makes you seem weak and that you have no power over the situation. You do.
But if you keep calling him your 'ex' and how you are D'd, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. I mean if you really want to think like that, why don't you go ahead and file?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
