Sounds as if you need to let him feel he is the leader of the family and you are his helpmate...reliable and strong, but that he is in a position of honor in your eyes...
not "above" you but cherished BY you..
make sense?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016