Next month would have marked 9 years for us, but we were never married. We got together when we were young teens and had kids young. We decided we didn't need to rush into marriage just because we had kids together. I really started wanting to get married a couple of years ago, and he wanted to wait until he graduated from college and we had our own house. It was a sore spot in our relationship for me. Even now he says he wanted to marry me up until he started wanting out maybe around 6 months ago.

So, yes, this is basically like a divorce, without the paperwork frown He jumped straight from being with me to divorce, no trial separation.

M & H 25
T 9
D 7
S 4
Bomb 11/11 Confused about feelings for me.
Bomb 12/11 ILYBNILWY, moved out
2-1-12 We're exclusive & dating each other.
3-4-12 H moved back in.
3-31-12 I deserve better. I'm done