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Re: Too Little, Too late 3 Oneeleven #2213514 01/17/12 06:46 PM
Joined: Dec 2011 Posts: 825 Virginia P purgatory OP Member
OP purgatory Member P Joined: Dec 2011 Posts: 825 Virginia	111- Thanks for the tips! I will HAVE to skype with hims for the kids, but I can make myself 'unavailable' and step aside while he talks with the kids. I do have one concern about one of your suggestions: Making choices on my own and just telling him about it. This was a symptom of our break-up: I was too independent (while he was home and deployed.) He always said that he felt like I didn't need him at all in my life because I never asked his opinion nor asked for help. I totally understand your reasoning for these actions- but I think it would be another reminder to my H of why he left me. I will not be completely needy of him, but I do want to show him that I value his opinion and he is still needed in my life for our kids and our house- this is a 180 for me. I also don't want to run the risk of OW being the 'needy' one (since she already is.) H thrives on being a problem solver- I don't want her to be the only one asking him for help... because that just encourages his decision to leave me. [I KNOW that I shouldn't allow projections/assumptions about them to drive my actions] M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12

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Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/16/12 04:45 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	25yearsmlc	01/16/12 05:02 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/16/12 11:48 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	Rick1963	01/16/12 12:54 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	labug	01/16/12 01:38 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	labug	01/16/12 02:11 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	Oneeleven	01/16/12 02:12 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	Oneeleven	01/16/12 02:14 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/16/12 04:15 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/16/12 02:15 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	Oneeleven	01/16/12 02:21 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	ces67	01/16/12 03:42 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	ces67	01/16/12 03:44 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/16/12 04:24 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	25yearsmlc	01/16/12 09:19 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	25yearsmlc	01/16/12 09:22 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/16/12 10:06 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	BklynMom	01/17/12 02:59 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/17/12 03:56 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	25yearsmlc	01/17/12 09:17 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	25yearsmlc	01/17/12 06:51 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/17/12 05:06 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	Oneeleven	01/17/12 05:50 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/17/12 06:46 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	25yearsmlc	01/17/12 06:49 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	Oneeleven	01/17/12 06:59 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	25yearsmlc	01/17/12 06:36 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/17/12 07:10 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	Oneeleven	01/17/12 07:43 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/17/12 08:00 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	25yearsmlc	01/17/12 08:42 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	25yearsmlc	01/17/12 08:44 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	WenikiTiki	01/17/12 09:25 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	25yearsmlc	01/17/12 09:31 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/18/12 03:50 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	sayitaintso	01/18/12 04:00 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	WenikiTiki	01/18/12 08:07 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	labug	01/18/12 03:09 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/18/12 04:41 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	Oneeleven	01/18/12 05:44 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	WenikiTiki	01/18/12 06:19 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/18/12 11:00 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	labug	01/18/12 11:47 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	25yearsmlc	01/18/12 11:54 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/19/12 12:03 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	Oneeleven	01/19/12 12:19 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/19/12 12:32 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	25yearsmlc	01/19/12 12:46 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	BklynMom	01/19/12 02:02 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	sayitaintso	01/19/12 02:53 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/19/12 04:05 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	labug	01/19/12 04:19 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	25yearsmlc	01/19/12 05:38 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/19/12 02:11 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	sayitaintso	01/19/12 02:53 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	BklynMom	01/19/12 05:19 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	25yearsmlc	01/19/12 09:41 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/20/12 04:19 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	25yearsmlc	01/20/12 04:23 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	Oneeleven	01/20/12 01:24 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	25yearsmlc	01/20/12 05:33 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	BFloat	01/20/12 06:28 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/20/12 06:46 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	BFloat	01/20/12 07:08 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/20/12 07:17 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	BklynMom	01/20/12 08:29 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/20/12 09:06 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	BklynMom	01/20/12 10:21 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	25yearsmlc	01/20/12 10:37 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	NLW	01/21/12 12:02 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	Rick1963	01/21/12 12:15 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/21/12 01:10 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	labug	01/21/12 01:35 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	WenikiTiki	01/21/12 07:11 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	BFloat	01/21/12 09:16 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/21/12 02:24 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	BklynMom	01/21/12 02:51 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	Oneeleven	01/21/12 03:05 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	Rick1963	01/21/12 03:17 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/21/12 04:32 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	Oneeleven	01/21/12 04:56 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	nhmom	01/21/12 05:01 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	BklynMom	01/21/12 05:48 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	BFloat	01/21/12 06:04 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/21/12 06:07 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	kolja	01/21/12 10:55 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/21/12 11:10 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	25yearsmlc	01/21/12 07:11 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	25yearsmlc	01/21/12 07:27 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/21/12 09:31 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/21/12 09:45 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	25yearsmlc	01/21/12 10:34 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	25yearsmlc	01/21/12 10:35 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	purgatory	01/21/12 11:00 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	Oneeleven	01/21/12 11:13 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	25yearsmlc	01/22/12 09:19 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	Oneeleven	01/21/12 10:39 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	25yearsmlc	01/21/12 07:08 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	~ kd ~	01/21/12 08:18 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	Oneeleven	01/19/12 12:57 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	BklynMom	01/18/12 11:48 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	sayitaintso	01/18/12 04:02 AM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	RoRoinMD	01/20/12 10:08 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	25yearsmlc	01/17/12 08:39 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	labug	01/16/12 02:27 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	Oneeleven	01/16/12 02:37 PM
Re: Too Little, Too late 3	Rick1963	01/16/12 03:43 PM

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