This may not be appropriated place to post but i would like to thank everyone that helped me through my situation a few months back. I have since divorced met a wonderful woman who loves me and by child. My ex wife has since turned to drugs has been arrested twice and is currently dating a man that is currently in the state prison system. ive accepted this is the life she has chosen and i have moved on with mine. I got full custody of my child through the courts and she is not allowed to see him without supervision. so for that in thankful. Guess i just wanna say to everyone going through this hang tough it will get better i promise.
its kinda weird cause when she found out bout the new woman a year after our d she became somewhat intrested and threatened. but as she told me in the beginning she just wanted me to be happy. now that i am she doesn't like it but ive told her there is now way on earth i would ever be in a relationship with her again. just cant do it.
I don't know anything about your sitch John but I'm glad to know their can be positive outcomes no matter how things go. Good for you.
I have no clue of your history or how your ex is but it sounds like she is in a bad place. However, and I'm not saying you are doing this, I think it is important that our kids have as much a relationship with both parents as long as their safety and behaviors are not affected too negatively which in your case sounds like they could be.
Hopefully she'll turn things around at least for your child's sake.
yes sayitaintso i agree but right now at this point his safety is my only concern. She has had him around known drug users and as long as im living that isn't going to happen. Her life is her life she can do as she pleases, ive actually gotten to where i could actually care less. I've told her when she displays responsible behavior we would talk about lifting the supervised visitation but not until then.
Rick i know its hard to believe and i understand ur divorce is new and i felt the same way u did a little over a year ago, but i promise u in time she will never cross your mind. its hard to do but u have to let go if she comes back she comes back only you can decide if the damage caused is to great to accept her back.
