Thanks for this Gunny, spoke right to my need of the moment. Being put through the ringer at the moment, words twisted and thrown at me, 15 year old mistakes tossed out as if they happened today and I was thinking it was time to throw in the towel.....but you reminded me that its not about what she does.... its about me doing what I know is right so not only can I look in the mirror but I can look my kids in the eyes and know that I didn't quit on their family, that I did all that was in my power to do to create a new and improved M with their mother. Thank You!