Talked to a friend today (who happens to be H's co-worker) and learned about A LOT!
H is a big fat liar and a cheater! Should I be surprised? Nope. H is in fact in an EA with the co-worker that I suspected. Though our friend thinks it's not a PA, I'm sure he doesn't know everything. If you read back my story, especially the section about the "texting thing", well, it turns out it was a big fat lie - a story that he made up. It was the same person all along. Though our friend knows about the fake story, he made H promise to him to stop it and our friend does not know anything about his recent change of heart about our M. H is avoiding friends, truly in denial.
Our friend says that H and OW do spend a lot of time together at the office and she laughs at his stupid jokes. She's in her early 20's and has nothing to offer, apparently living with a boyfriend herself.
Our friend suggested that I need to make him realize what he will lose if he keeps up with that. Right now, everything seems to make sense in H's head. Our friend was a WAS himself not too long ago and it wasn't until he realized that he was going to lose his W that made him open his eyes. But by that time it was too late and his W moved on.
Lots of emotions going through my head right now...
